Sample essay topic, essay writing: This Boys Life - 1276 words
.. James had said we have social instincts, one of which is fear. Jack was in fear of his life. One of these days Dwight may have lost it and taken it all out on Jack. Jack needed to survive and protect himself. I believe that this is the reason why Jack left.
Had Dwight been a loving and caring father, Jack would have no reason to fear Dwight and "survive" (pain avoidance.) I doubt that Jack would resort to applying to the prep schools if Dwight was not the psycho he was. Without being accepted to the Hill school Jack had no where else to go, so he probably would have stayed in Concrete, even after the kitchen incident with Dwight. In conclusion I believe that Jack was more extrinsically motivated. From the school cutting, to the cigarettes, to the final decision to leave, which was caused by the way Dwight treated Jack. All these factors come into play, but the years that Jack spent in Concrete, Jack was extrinsically motivated by his environment, his friends (the bums) and Dwight. Caroline engaged in behaviors, both advantageous and unstable because of the way she thought. The way Caroline interpreted a situation would determine how she would react to it
If she thought rationally then she would act rationally, if she thought irrationally then she would act irrationally. Her feelings of self-doubt and self-confidence would determine her behavior. -Tobias goes through troubling times while he is growing up in the 50s. Being a teen is hard enough, but Tobias also has to face life without a stable home. Although he is constantly blaming his mother for leaving his father, he knows that it isn't her fault. His father was the one that left them.
Caroline's decision to end her marriage can be explained by her perception of her husband and what she thought about the marriage before the time of the divorce. Her feelings of self-doubt would cause her view the reason her husband left as her not being good enough, or that he had found a "bimbo" to run off with. She made a rational decision to date Roy because he provided for her and Tobias. She left Roy because he had nothing to offer her. He was a dead beat and he was only interested in her for one reason (sex) and she knew this. Her decision to leave Roy was rational, however her sudden judgment to pack up and leave everything and just move to Seattle with Jack was irrational, even though she moved to Seattle with Jack in pursuit of a better life.
The way Caroline processes information, and the way she perceives things is the way she will react to these things. She thought of Seattle as a fresh start with many new opportunities for both of them. Caroline dreams of having a "better life", a life more fit than what she had with her ex husband, Roy, and more fit life than she has now. After moving to Seattle and meeting Dwight she decides to marry Dwight Hansen. She marries Dwight because she is thinking rationally. He can provide for them and she knows that Jack needs a father.
Dwight seems to be the perfect husband..at first. Tobias soon finds out his stepfather's act of being the 'perfect suitor' was just a mask. Only after moving to Concrete do things unfold. Dwight is unnaturally strict and selfish, and does everything in his power to make Tobias's life a living hell. Just when Caroline thinks she has escaped the feeling of loneliness and insecurity of Tobias's future, she realizes she trapped herself into yet another obstacle.
In the end, Caroline decides to leave Dwight. She knew that he never loved her and that he only needed her to cook and clean. She knows that he never even liked her to begin with. Caroline realizes that all her decisions up to that point backfired on her. Now she understands it is time to do, and with her newly gained confidence she makes the decision of leaving him and moving to Florida.
Up to this point her low self-efficacy led her to make unwise decisions. Only after observational learning and building up her feeling of self-confidence does Caroline make a truly substantial decision. Arthur and Jack were both similar and different. They were different in both boys came from completely opposite upbringings. Arthur was raised to be polite and courteous, where as jack had those qualities in him but chose to act more macho and less considerate of others.
It may have been the influence of the crowd, which Jack hung out with. Arthur was also more open and carefree. He chose to dress, talk, and act the way he did, because that was how his mother had raised him, even though he knew this excluded him. Jack tended to blend in with the crowd more. He needed to make social bonds and belong, whereas Arthur may have wanted to but he didn't conform to fit anyone's image of what they expected him to be. They have more similarities than differences.
Their mothers had raised both boys. I think the reason the boys got along and formed a friendship was because they were both outsiders. Neither one really belonged in Concrete. A town like Concrete has a certain image of what its boys are to be like and Arthur and Jack didn't fit into that image. Also Arthur did not have any friends, and Jack's "friends" were only guys who he horsed around with.
He and Arthur saw something in each other, which they based a friendship on, that something was that they were outcasts. I would have answered Arthur with a simple smile and "We can both leave together!" Not to just convince or trick Arthur into getting me the transcript, but to show him that he to didn't have to stay. Since neither of us truly belonged then it would have been rational for both of us to leave together. If we were true friends then we would both look out for one another and help each other on out way. I would have meant it, to ask Arthur to leave with me, because his life in Concrete would be wasted if he didn't realize that this is his opportunity to leave.
I would also tell Arthur that he can "succeed" and make it big because he's a smart kid, and that he shouldn't let his mind and talent go to waste, especially not in a crude town like Concrete. In a way I seized my chance when I made my decision to move to Danbury. Things weren't going to well for me back in NY. I was hanging out with too many people from the wrong crowd, and that eventually put me in many uncomfortable situations. I was lagging behind in school and I kept getting into trouble.
Had I stayed in NY I probably would be up to the same things now as I was before. I would be cutting school and causing my mother even more grief. Since I moved here I have brought up my grades and am preparing for the SAT's. That is another thing I doubt I would be doing if I were in NY. Eleventh grade is the most important grade, and I knew I needed to do well if I wanted to go to a good college and make something o myself.
The opportunity arose when my aunt moved here and I seized the chance. I'm glad I didn't decide to stay, otherwise I would be wondering if I could have pulled it off.
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